something i have learnt

Fighting with a friend isn't a nice thing at all I know when I was younger maybe even 2 years ago I would fight with a friend and we would fight back and forth saying ugly thing to each other. i have learnt recently that if I friend fights with you ( a good friend) sometimes its best not to fight back to hear her out first and if you come to the conclusion that you are kinder in the wrong its best to just put up that white flag and be like okay I understand were you are coming from and then tell her how you feel and if she still fights back just be nice and say I don't want to fight with you I love you and give her space to cool down cause you cant fight fire with fire, and don't think that you are letting her walk all over you, you are just being the better person.

She will come around soon cause you cant fix something when the person is angry they have there guard up and are ready for you to strike, there's no point in resolving it straight away. its kind of like fighting with a boyfriend yes its better to resolve it sooner then later but you also have to cool down a bit and have a clear mind. so what I'm trying to say is I have learnt patients in fighting as well as controlling those angry emotions.

I know its hard sometimes, we are not perfect but sometime you have to put your pride in your pocket and be the calm on even if the person says or does ugly things. I hope this little blog has helped you in some way.