ITS MY LIFE

so this is sort of like an epiphany in a way. I was driving home yesterday I do a lot of thinking when I drive home I like to reflect on things when I'm driving. a thought popped into my head, I thought this is my life, THIS IS MY LIFE! I love the people in my life and I tend to put people before me but this is my life I have to do what is best for me at the end of the day.

if you make decisions in your life that make other people happy you will never be happy you will never do the things you want to do. As you have read in my pervious blog I was upset about something and I wanted to tell you guys because this is an honest blog about life and learning things in your 20s. everyone has their own beliefs in things what they think is right and wrong and someone close to me did something that I think is really wrong and hurt me really bad. I realised that if I want my mind and soul to be cleansed and not have hatred and anger in my soul I have to forgive this person.

now I know there are some things you cant forgive people for you have to make up your mind if you still want to be friends with that person or still married/dating that person. if that person isn't good for you then its best to let them go even if it hurts because you have to do what's best for you this is your life!

now the person that hurt me I know in my heart it isn't worth not having them in my life its not that big its just knowing that they know how I feel about what they did and that they wont do it again. I hope this helps some of you and i just want to thank the people that read my blog you guys really make my day.